In the video "Christ Centred Love For You Helps You Love," Bishop FEB discusses how having a Christ-centered connection allows you to love others from a place of overflow rather than obligation. 

• The video references one of Christ's most important commandments: "Love your neighbor as yourself."

• It explains that the ability to love others—even those who are different or have wronged you—comes from a connection with Christ.

• By focusing on Christ's infinite love, which loved you first even when you didn't deserve it, you are filled with an overflow of His love.

• This overflow is what enables you to love your neighbor as yourself, not out of a sense of obligation but because you have been loved so much.

In the video titled "Christ centred Love For You Helps You Love - Part 2," the speaker discusses how a Christ-centered love creates a "ripple effect," similar to throwing a rock into water. 

• Ripple Effect: The speaker compares a Christ-centered love to a ripple effect, where the love in your life spreads outwards to others [00:08].

• Loving with More Capacity: When Christ is at the center, you are able to love others with a greater capacity [00:38].

• Deeper Connections: This kind of love allows for deeper connections with other people [00:45].

• Humility in Love: You can also love with more humility when your love is centered on Christ [00:51].

• Christ-Centered is Key: The video's main message is that to achieve this ripple effect, your love must be Christ-centered [01:14].